Nancy Leigh DeMoss, author and host of the Christian radio program Revive Our Hearts, has eloquently described what I believe should be the Christian response to the case of Carrie Prejean, the current Miss California who lost the Miss USA crown due in no small part to her pro-traditional marriage answer to a question posed by gay activist/gossip columnist Perez Hilton. In a recent special commentary, currently in circulation on Christian radio stations which carry her show, Ms. DeMoss succinctly summed up the issues raised by the Prejean case:
Those who hold to the biblical concept of marriage couldn't help but be glad that this young woman courageously stood for the Truth, knowing that to do so could be costly.
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But while I applaud her courage, I also believe some of her choices and public actions, past and present, are representative of many women who consider themselves Christians but who lack clear biblical thinking and conviction on such matters as virtue, womanhood, beauty, modesty, and discretion.
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Carrie is a product of a Christian sub-culture that has lost a sense of what it means to be citizens of the kingdom of God and has embraced the values and thinking of the world.
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So many young women in the Christian world have little understanding or discernment when it comes to modesty and personal purity. And can you blame them when they are following in the footsteps of a generation of so-called believers who tolerate, justify and flaunt immodesty, sensuality, and immorality of every form, along with serial divorce and remarriage?
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Carrie Prejean's story should cause us to be on our faces crying out to God over the extent to which the church today has accommodated to the world.
(A complete transcript of Ms. DeMoss's comments is available here.)
The Carrie Prejean matter is disappointing on a number of fronts. First, it's disappointing that flamboyantly gay Perez Hilton deliberately targeted Carrie Prejean with the gay marriage question, in an attempt to harm her because of her publicly declared Christian faith. Second, it's disappointing that the Miss California pageant directors (one gay activist, one former Playboy centerfold) went out of their way to publicly attack and denigrate her. Third, it's disappointing that certain conservative evangelical activists like Maggie Gallagher (National Organization for Marriage) and Dr. James Dobson (Focus on the Family) have glommed on to Carrie Prejean for their own purposes and to revive their struggling organizations, with little or no regard to her personal conduct or struggles.
Perhaps the most disappointing thing in this whole affair was that virtually nobody, except for Ms. DeMoss, saw any disconnect between Carrie Prejean's conduct (semi-nude and nude photos, breast implants, participation in these pageants) and her professed Christian faith.
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